Top ten spontaneous sexual moments

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While in Colombia, Dominican Republic or even the United States, some of the most fun and memorable moments are those that are spontaneous. Personally I enjoy doing spontaneous things. For example due to my work, whenever I travel it’s usually on a whim or a couple days notice. Sometimes deciding to go out to certain restaurants will almost always be spontaneous. Even some of my good friends will fly into Tampa, FL from NYC every few months on a whim to go eat in Tampa with me. I usually know only a few hours ahead of time or sometimes when they landed. For many of us it becomes a part of life since planning out smaller things such as trips, or dates can become a hassle or always interrupted.

Being spontaneous also has its much higher level of mystery and fun, especially with women. It is a similar feeling to some of the previous posts I have written about euphoric moments that always make for the most memorable experiences. For me, even when I just started dating in NY, I always preferred to ask a girl out for that very same night and believe it or not, many girls prefer this mode as well. It might not seem that way but girls love the element of those spontaneous moments just as much as we do.

It never seized to amaze me on how open women were and how willing they were to do crazy shit on a whim just like men are including wild sexual moments. Those moments intensified as the time knowing each other was shorter. For me some of those moments were as follows in no particular order as they are all awesome times:

  1. Meeting a girl working in the mall in Pereira, asking her out that night, she comes over just a couple hours later and is ok with banging prior to leaving to go out.
  2. Buying a hot girl a drink at Charlies in Tampa and she agrees to sit and eat with you and your friends, ok with some play right at the table, then wants to bang in the hotel next door.
  3. Driving on the highway, making eye contact with a girl driving in the next lane and getting her number through hand signals. Calling right there and then stopping for lunch and a quickie close by.
  4. Staying at a hotel on la 70 in Medellin, a girl comes into the wrong room but isn’t quick to leave. Is ok to make out and leave her number for more on the next visit.
  5. On the beach at Boca Chica, Dominican Republic, meeting a Dominican girl from NYC that worked in Macy’s on the beach vacationing that is OK with getting banged under water only 30 minutes after meeting. Very exciting moment, that night she drove over to the hotel in Santo Domingo to go out as well.
  6. Eating dinner with friends and several hot babes in Tampa from Orlando, one of which worked at a hotel in Disney. When she left the restaurant, she also left her wallet. I called her and told her that I would be leaving to Orlando in 2 hours after the martinis wore off. She mentioned to wait at my place so I told her where and how to get in and she waited in the bed. Amazing spontaneous moment walking into the bedroom at 4am with that hot blonde in panties in the bed. She was one of the hottest girls I was ever with (an American).
  7. In Medellin with my buddy both with first dates, mine met in front of the hotel and we went to pick his up in the apartments in Via Las Palmas. he went inside, while my date and I waited outside. She decided to blow me in the breezeway right around the corner from her door. Super exciting getting head on a spontaneous whim before dinner.
  8. Meeting an Argentinian girl bar tender and she agrees to go home with me after the shift. Once in the car on the road she strips and throws her clothes out the window until fully nude. Awesome time, turned into a regular thing for us lasting a couple months.
  9. Driving from NYC to Florida, meeting a girl online prior to driving that is flying from Seattle to Washington DC, asked if I could meet her at the airport and she could drive with me for the night. I agreed and was pleasantly surprised how hot this girl was. We had a great time and stayed in touch.
  10. In Medellin, renting an apartment and the maid of the landlord comes up to show you the place but really wants to play.

While these are all kind of slutty type moments, the same goes true for many girlfriends, they normally initiated on a spontaneous date, maybe not sexual but at least a same day date. Some of these moments were very memorable, surely for the girl as well. In my experience women love being spontaneous and I also find that when you plan a date too far away it usually ends up shitty or canceled. I figure it is probably some other guy asking her spontaneously and she chose that route instead if the planned date is canceled. Strangely enough but seems to be true.

Colombian whiskey parties

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Earlier today I decided to stop inside the Mexican restaurant for lunch. I walk inside take a seat and the waitress comes over and immediately I recognize her. She is one of the Colombian girls that I used to know when I went with my girlfriend to these whiskey parties they had every few weeks.

The parties were fun, they were basically either at a BBQ outdoor setting by a pool or inside of someones house. They consisted of usually around 20 people, mostly couples and a few singles around. These parties were some of my first experiences with the girls from Pereira. Some of which were tremendously beautiful, including the one I was with for several years.

right away she recognizes me as well and we start with the small talk. So how have you been? What are you doing these days? How is your girlfriend? is she Colombian? From Pereira? the usually small talk that goes on as we haven’t seen each other for several years. When I look back body wise this girl was always chunky, so she hadn’t changed to much over the years, like some of the others I run into here and there. One thing did immediately come to mind that happened at one of these whiskey parties I was at.

I remembered this guy got up to use the restroom and left his wife or girlfriend on one of the couches and she was busy talking with the other girls, usually everyone is extremely buzzed out on whiskey since that is the whole idea. They sit and drink whiskey and play all kinds of Latin music, usually Colombian styled music while reminiscing about the old small pueblo they were all from. It was nice but for a gringo, it got real boring after a couple of hours. I stuck around as I couldn’t wait to get home and bang my girlfriend, she was that hot, around 5’10″ 120 pounds and looked amazing.

While this guy is up and tremendously buzzed out, this girl that is now waiting on me, also get’s up and gives this guy a blow job in the hall way right next to one of the bedrooms and bathroom. It was so obvious that she got up and went to hang out with this guy, but strangely enough his wife did not notice. I knew because my girlfriend got up and walked over and immediately came back to me and told me. I thought what? wow! Then I began wondering how good of a blow job this girl gives. In fact at the restaurant today, I was just shy of asking her if she wanted a quick shot of Johnny Walker.

That night at the whiskey party, I thought imagine if this girl caught her husband getting a BJ, what would happen? It was just one of those things that was weird to happen at such a small party so close.

We chatted for a few more minutes as I ate my chicken quesadillas and I called it a day. Such a small world, suddenly all these old faces are popping up again, now in the late 20′s early 30′s.

One of the most important reasons to vote for Romney

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I know many of you think why does he post this on a Colombian blog. The answer is easy, I am passionate about the situation and feel that many people just aren’t aware of the damage and potential damage to our country and people if this was to continue. Currently, this is the reason for the majority of lost jobs which more people should be aware of. Secondly, it may have something to do with the recent passing of the FTA with Colombia.

Out of all the candidates there was only one in particular that wasn’t trying to talk around the situation with China. All the others were talking about trade wars and talking about all the reasons why we should not stop the current crap that is destroying us at the current time. There is no other way to look at it, we are already in a trade war and we are losing big time. We need someone that will actually make a move and not just say this or that.

Anyone that has been in business or wants to become an entrepreneur knows the extreme importance of putting a stop to the extreme thievery, poisonous and absolute unfair trade practices that have been going on with China for many years now. We have yet to have a president willing to stand up to this and each year it get’s worse. Huntsman was talking about why we cannot. Why this why that!  What Romney says in the video posted below is 100% correct. China is playing us all the way to the bank through money manipulation, through shady retail practices, through slipping goods without inspection through the ports, through making knock off’s of every single product we design and much more. China has played every single person in our government before.

We can talk about building jobs all we want, but the truth of the matter is another nation has stolen those jobs from us and we need to recoup them. Romney made a promise that his very first thing in office will be to put a halt to China doing what they are doing now and personally I believe him. Take a look at this video and you too will see his strong stance against this crippling issue.

 

 

Is our Chicken imported from China and filthy conditions

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As I do more research into the China problem with the US, the more I find the more sick it gets. Since April 2006 the USDA approved that China could process Chicken for the United States. What that means is we grow and develop the chickens here in the states and we then ship them to China for them to process and send back to the states. What a crock of shit that is.

One of the problems is I don’t think we are educated enough on the issue at hand which to me is major. It’s one thing that all of our products are getting knocked off and China is cutting us out on retail in our own country, but food too?

This article from the consumerist talks about the poison being shipped here when this first started in 2007. It discusses prunes, toxic veggies, cancerous shrimp, dog food that has killed several times. I mean this list keeps getting longer. WTF?

Consumerist article a must read

There was a link to the rejected shipments from the FDA that was bone chilling. Even worse is that once these shipments are rejected, due to the small 1% inspection rates they just rerun the shipments through. This is another reason to stay away from WalMart stores. Although even believe it or not Whole foods has product from China in their stores. Some of the rejections listed things such as filthy, poisonous, cancerous ingredients, using things that the FDA found to be highly cancerous in the 1950′s in the USA. Our fruits and vegetables are coming in from China now.

Who and why we decided to allow our food to come from China is beyond me, but this really needs to stop. Do you want your children eating this shit with toxic ingredients and from filthy conditions. One thing for sure is our policies cannot be trusted at all. How will we know if the chick breast we are eating is from the US or China? I think they are allowed to label it “PRC” instead of “Made in China”.

Aside from the consumerist article, there are tons more leading up to 2012 from this, but I think its important we see how all this began and now spiraled out of control.

More info being reported:

The list of Chinese food exports rejected at American ports reads like a chef’s nightmare: pesticide-laden pea pods, drug-laced catfish, filthy plums and crawfish contaminated with salmonella.

Yet, it took a much more obscure item, contaminated wheat gluten, to focus U.S. public attention on a very real and frightening fact: China’s chronic food safety woes are now an international concern.

In recent weeks, scores of cats and dogs in America have died of kidney failure blamed on eating pet food containing gluten from China that was tainted with melamine, a chemical used in plastics, fertilizers and flame retardants. While humans aren’t believed at risk, the incident has sharpened concerns over China’s food exports and the limited ability of U.S. inspectors to catch problem shipments.

For this article read here

 

God knows what is coming over with the chicken imports. They slaughter dogs for food and certain clothes items that we import to the US, imagine if some of that dog slipped in with the chicken from the filthy conditions.

It’s truly whacked that this was ever approved by anyone. Lets make something clear, although China yes is part of the problem, the real problem lies with the fucking buyers  of this shit right here in the US, which is the large US corporations that suck the tax payer money for the bullshit subsidies promised. Make something else very clear, while Walmart appears they are saving you a few bucks, the shit you are buying from them is just that, shit and do you really think that WalMart gives a shit about the American peoples health when selling you a chemical laden chicken breast that appears to be US supplied? Or dog food that will eventually kill your dog? This has been going on for close a decade now and it has to stop.

 

Are Colombian girls the most affectionate in the world?

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One of the things that stands out most when starting to date Colombian girls is the level of affection. I am not talking about sexual advances or anything in a sexual way. I am talking about when a guy is used to dating American women all his life and suddenly ends up dating in Medellin or Bogota, one of the first major things he notices is the level of affection is much different than that of what they have experienced all their life.

I remember friends of mine specifically telling me this after the trips saying wow, this girl wouldn’t stop massaging me in public or whatever it was, holding hands, making out, running fingers through your hair, you name it and they do it. It is in my opinion the most affectionate culture I have ever experienced and by far. I remember having conversations with Colombian men that had traveled to other places, one in particular Spain and remember him telling me how cold the women were. I completely agree with this and could only imagine the difference for him living all his life with these ultra affectionate women.

Personally out of all the Colombian girls I dated or even those that came to the USA with me, were super affectionate and this had nothing to do with strata, prepago’s, simple, educated, money or broke they were all the same in that category. You watch tv on the couch, they will come over and sit on your lap or right up next to you and touch. You go to a restaurant and they will be the first to grab your hand at the table, or move her chair closer. You walk through the park and she will put her hand up your sleeve and rub your arm. It varies but seems to never stop.

Getting spoiled with Colombian women can come from various angles that each time you come back to your own culture you like the women less. Upon returning to your own culture, you start to date and think, why? So much less affection, age sometimes much closer and unattractive.
Although, we too in the USA have beautiful women, we have highly sexual women. But it is hard to say we have women that are ultra affectionate like that of Colombia.

Again, this has nothing to do with sexuality, it is simply affection using the term “Carinosa” in Spanish.

The friendliest and rudest countries

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Friendliest countries:

 
Colombia
For me I have found that most of the places I have gone in Colombia have been extra friendly as far as walking into a store or treatment in a restaurant, or even a family meeting for the first time in most cases have been super friendly. Manizales was rude for me, however the other cities make up for it.

Dominican Republic
The DR has been very friendly for me in many ways. People are inviting and just friendly period in my many experiences. I have had taxi drivers invite me to their homes to meet their families which doesn’t happen too often in other places.

United States
Contrary to popular belief, I feel that many places in the United States are friendly. I even think that New York is a friendly place, they may not be as open to start a conversation which to me is better, however they are typically not rude. Then you have all the southern places that are known for the southern hospitality.

Morocco
Speaking of southern hospitality, Morocco is known world wide for their hospitality traits, hospitality schools and even when they come to the U.S. is it usually on a hospitality type visa. That has to be one of the reasons why the place is super friendly.

Rudest
 
Spain
Everyone will probably think that is easy listing France as the rudest, however I have to say that my time in Madrid had to be one of the rudest I have encountered. According to this article at Huffington Post they also have France listed first and Spain listed somewhere around sixth.

Russia
Go online and search for a Russian wife, no need to say more. Those that do get married are the exception and if they make it through the first green card, I am surprised. Very rude country with rude people.

India
Just Rude!

China
Should be number 1 in the rude department.

France
Everyone knows that France is a rude place to go and it’s true, however for me, it’s not the rudest.

Check out the Huffington article and let me know if you have any other experiences or ideas about this. I agree with article just in a different order.

Mom listens in on entire sex session

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It was a second date in Medellin with this girl that had potential to be a girlfriend, I was staying at an apartment that I hated in Laureles. Not that I dislike Laureles, it’s just that this particular apartment was stuffy and on the old side. For some reason I found it to be really uncomfortable and hardly any ventilation with no A/C. In fact it wasn’t more than a week that I made a deal with the landlord to change that place for a nice apartment in Laureles Campestre on the 7th floor. I had to wait a week for these guys from Germany to leave.

That same evening we had plans to go to dinner with the mom and I would meet her for the first time. We wanted to spend the day together so she came over to the apartment and from that apartment she called her mom. Told her that she made it ok and that we would see her at around 8pm to go to dinner. Apparently the phone was broken and never hangs up. It appears to hang up but it really does not.

Right there next to the phone, we start making out, one thing leads to another and we are having a massive sexual session, our first time so I had no idea this girl was noisy as fuck. It was only moments after she “hung up” the phone she started saying sexual things loud and clear in Spanish. Things that a mother could not even imagine that her daughter would ever talk about. She loved to talk dirty as we continued the session, probably less than 5 feet from this supposedly hung up phone. She was saying things like “rip off these fucking panties”, “You like this pussy?” with many things much dirtier and this went on for around, let’s say 15- 20 minutes. The session finally ends so we could take off to the mall. She picks up the phone to call a taxi and Holy shit! the mom was still on the phone. She says hello, hello? She says Mom??? and the mother says how she has been on the whole time, listening to the entire thing. My date starts busting out laughing with her mom, what else could she say. I thought great, at least the mom seems open to this, but I couldn’t stop to think how fucked up it would be to actually sit and eat with the mom at dinner only a few hours after a sweat session.

The night came around and we arrive to pick up the mom, we walk into her house and I meet her for the first time and I could tell, she was looking at me in a much different way then she otherwise would have.She knew that I had just gotten a taste of her daughter a few hours earlier. All in all it turned out fine, she was actually my girlfriend for some time, highly educated from a private University, nice girl, seemed to care, but deep down just way to selfish for my taste and standards. Personally, I do not see any reason at all to stay with someone that has a selfish trait as most do in that area. Overall good experience with her and just an unforgettable way to meet a potential mother in law.

Have you found a Colombian girl that actually cares about you

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I know that many of you will say that yes my Colombian girlfriend or wife does care about me. Rather than compulsively saying yes, take a look deeper and ask yourself that question. What is caring about you? What does it consist of or how do you really know when someone cares about you. The sad part is that if any of this should go down with her parent’s or blood children, she wouldn’t even think twice about it.

You might ask yourself why is it important? She is taking care of me, cooking, cleaning the house and banging me real good every night. The thing is that when you marry someone you need to trust that that person will be there for you when you cannot, you need to trust that she will take care of the things you normally take care of while you are not around even if she thinks she doesn’t benefit from them, but instead that she is a part of you and it’s the right thing to do.

Right now you think she cares and it’s probably because everything you do involves her directly. However there are other things that still involve her but indirectly and she will most likely have zero interest in that simply based on the fact you are not around. She will think oh well, he should have been paying me from that all along. Let’s say you are sick or you lose your job, or for whatever reason you go away for a few months outside of your control. Normally your wife would know that certain things would have to get paid, or she will know that these things need to get taken care of otherwise you will lose it. Married or not, if she is not somehow benefiting directly from those things, consider them gone.

I had this fiance at one earlier time in Medellin, very simple, sweet, loving someone who you really think you can trust in a bind. She had a son around 4 years old and we were together for a couple of years. When I was out of town, I sent her a few bucks here and there, we spoke several times daily, the relationship was real, however when the true test came around and I needed her to help, she didn’t give a shit. I thought, what a fucked up mind. I thought doesn’t she realize that with this is where she gets some cash that I send, with this is how we rent nice apartments in Medellin, with this is how we go to dinners and also take her son. All that didn’t even matter at all. What mattered was that she was not the one on the payroll and while not saying she wouldn’t help, she just didn’t in the most selfish way anyone could imagine. She wasn’t working, so it wasn’t like she didn’t have the time, she just opted to not help out at all no matter how bad the issue was.

That was when I realized that this type of action is par for the course and it didn’t matter which one it was, this was going to go down just like this.

It’s kind of a shit feeling knowing that she cares but really doesn’t care if you follow me. She cares in a way that she will do anything for you physically but strangely enough when you most need it and not around, it won’t happen. In my case above, the mother might have influenced her to not give a damn, since she wasn’t on the payroll. In any event, you will also find that she and the mother are 1.

Many of you guys living in Colombia or married to Colombian girls might think she cares, but the reality of the matter is that nothing has ever arose to put her in that situation for the real test. I am not talking about paying a house that you BOTH own or anything that is beneficial to her.

Would be great to hear any of you that think it is different. Feel free to comment.

Risking your life for love, is it worth it?

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Even after people see and read the real deal of Medellin and other cities in the region, with all the robberies finally making the media and the unfortunate incidents that should open the eyes of anyone looking to travel South for that love they have been seeking so long. It has now become a flight that people can no longer take without knowing that the city leans towards a violent nature in general and can be a life ending experience.

Perhaps it is after a brutal divorce with an outright feminist that could give two shits about you or a wife that just out of the blue decided she wanted out, time was up and those close friends of hers at work have been feeding her with the common workplace shit that flows around so freely. Often comforting her with the fact that divorce is common place and she will be just fine starting over. Maybe it was the other way around and the guy just couldn’t take hearing all the demands and arguments that are so common with many in today’s society. It is apparent that marriage and family are no longer perceived as a serious venture.

Whatever the reason may be, the internet is loaded with pics and profiles of these Colombian babes, talking about how all they want and seek is a guy that loves them. These Colombian girls can be smoking hot and compared to what the men are used to can be the decision maker, or should I say settle for, since most men just settle.

It’s not tough to see, we have become a lazy society, we love everything easy. We innovate products that make life easier and solve problems, funny how many problems are simplifying current products that work just fine, just making them so we move less and get it done faster. All that is great, who doesn’t want a car that parks itself, or a voice controlled remote or voice texting?

Unfortunately when choosing a wife we want fast and easy as well which unless you are just a lucky guy, is bound to be problems in the end. I do believe in luck and I know some guys that have flew into Medellin one time and found that perfect girl for them, never perfect but good for them and flew in one other time to get engaged or married and got out. The reality is that those lucky guys really had no idea of how that girl really was, they knew too little about her and her family to even have the slightest idea. The risk in doing this is getting taken financially and a big waste of time, especially if a marriage was involved.

While that risk is bad, the risks involved for gringos going to Medellin for several weeks or months at a time, or even moving over there become elevated. Basically the more time spent there the higher the risk of getting caught off guard that can easily turn deadly, stemming from a simple robbery or a more advanced organized set up by the girl herself or her boyfriend.

With all that being said, bottom line is it worth risking your life for love? For most guys no, those guys that that want the fast fix wife, the guys that accept the very first girl that says yes and she’ll go out with him, the risks are immediately double for them. However is it worth for those that want to be smart about who they are willing to date, those guys that do their homework for real and weed out all the greedy ambitious dollar diggers. I say it is worth the short stay risk for them as long as they stay smart during the stays as well. Either that or find a new less violent and crime ridden destination for a wife.

Medellin and other city cam girls screwing over foreigners

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As most people now know cam sites have grown to insane levels in the past few years. In fact several studies have shown that these adult cam sites are causing severe changes in the way people seek relationships. (no links but there are many) While this is not surprising to me or either is the fact that millions of men visits these sites. Why not? The ability to see beautiful naked Colombian women before even traveling, almost like a sampling. Checking out the different body shapes of these extremely hot women. Adult cam sites have become the norm over the last several years, in fact they could be the reason for so many marriage agencies closing down or at least on the major decline.

These guys are checking out the women as they also try to check out the hotel rooms and areas to stay in as well. However with this came a huge problem, that problem is a ton of these women are manipulating these men to fall in love with them. In the last year I did several interviews with adult cam girls and posted a few of them, I also have some friends that work in the industry, some girls I used to bang here and there that also worked doing adult cam shows. Some of these women have opened up to me and told me the entire deal starting with the studios.

They told me that many of these men think they are actually chatting with the model, however there is usually someone else and in many cases a male chatting for the model due to lack of English. These men that chat behind the scenes hear all the bullshit from the foreign men that are falling in love with the models. In fact one guy was sending a whore model thousands of dollars each month Western Union. He was from Australia and single.

Men actually think they will be perceived better by the model if they send more cash. They fall right into the trap, perhaps the trap of desperation. It brings me to the same type of deal where you go to certain South American areas like Medellin or further central Costa Rica and watching these desperate men throwing around cash like its the only way in the world they will get laid or make a whore like them. I think it has come upon us due to the local women etching such a high insecure picture in these guys heads that they walk away feeling the only way to be with any woman is through the dollar bill. In essence this creates a snowball effect and the women in these areas start to use this action as well. As soon as they see the insecurity issue or hear the man speak of how high up he is in his career or how well he does, the gears start in motion.

The girl will figure out the best way to manipulate and use this guy until his wallet is stone dry. With adult cam sites, the girl doesn’t even have to meet the guy in person. She or her writer, will have these men so far in love that they are willing to give up half their pay checks on them with a 99% chance of never even meeting the girl in person. These cam girls are taking advantage of several men at the same time and buying penthouse apartments while the poor gringos are going broke.

Better off not meeting her, because if she can get you to send her cash by showing a little arepa on cam, imagine what she will do once she lets you touch it in person.

These webcam sites have become the popular hangouts for guys to chat and fall in love with these manipulators. If the girl is willing to masturbate in front of a thousand men on cam for 10.00, I could just imagine what else she would do. If you do visit these cam sites like the millions of other men, use with caution and don’t fall in love or send any cash. The following is a link to a non nude in free cam site, for those interested in seeing how these girls operate. Another thing is it is a good idea to cross reference your girlfriend with one of these sites, if you met her on Cupid she might work here as well.

 
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