It has been several years now that Americans and foreigners have been traveling in bulk to Colombia for dating. The days of just Bogota and Medellin have past and Americans are venturing into other areas in search of girlfriends or wives. Certain girls begin to learn how Americans operate and figure out which are the easiest ways to take advantage and then when the American traveler figures out a particular scam going on a new one will arise and as the story continues like anything else. Humans get sick and get prescribed an antibiotic, soon after the bacteria gets smarter and we have to figure out another way to get better, the natural process of good and evil, the balance of life.
Unfortunately trust is a rare commodity these days in America but even less when dating in Colombia and while it is great to meet some new chick online and the chemistry seems awesome, we simply cannot trust her at all. First of all we have to remember that if she is attractive, you have to figure she is in contact with several Americans at the same time. Another thing to figure is that at this time you really should not need to trust. As long as there is zero talk about money as it should be there should absolutely be no reason to have to put any trust down at all. If any talk about money changing hands should arise, it should be taken as an immediate red flag and should put you on alert for any talks in the near future.
What do you do when you meet a girl from a small city in Colombia Cupid and after 3 or 4 days of chatting by phone you decide to go for a visit and she brings up the possible chance of her traveling to meet you in a bigger city? The catch is she needs money to get there. I know this is one of the most classic scams but in reality how do we differentiate if it is or not? Especially if she says it is also ok to meet in her city but she thought it might be more comfortable for you to meet in the bigger city?
Do we scratch this girl off the list right away? Myself probably only because I have met many girls in different cities and travel is so cheap country wide by bus that they have never asked me for bus fare, yes even the poor ones, although I will usually buy the return ticket at the terminal for the ride back. I just hate it when a new girl starts to ask for cash right off the bat, they usually say how they feel strange asking for this money but…
How do you know if they are being genuine asking to meet you in another city right off the bat? How many times has she done this before or how do you know this is not an ambush?
Colombian dating is a complex process and we have to give ourselves rules. Even the dating sites have warnings saying never send money to one of these girls. This should be the number one rule. After you never break your own rule, then you just have to be aware of safety issues.
While we have known this has been changing rapidly over the last year or so, travel to Medellin has increased ten fold and those same travelers that polluted Costa Rica in the early 2000′s have now completely distorted the wife finding haven it once was. It’s funny how these same principals have similar instances domestically as well. One instance that I can think of which really sucks because I am actually one of those people that came from NY. What happens is the liberals screw up these bigger cities and once they are fed up from the outcomes they decide to move into the cities that are more conservative to enjoy the low tax rates, the great opportunities for small business. For example, New York used to be an awesome place to live, it didn’t matter whether it was Long Island or Manhattan, I lived in both and they were equally great. As time moved on taxes started rising, state income taxes, tolls and just about any other tax you can think of, New York has it added.
Now if you want to live in a modest $180,000 home in even upstate New York be prepared to pay a hefty tax bill of around $8,000 a year give or take a thousand or two according to a realtor I spoke to. Upstate NY is an amazing place to live with the four seasons and nice mountains ect. But once you hear how high the home taxes are it makes most people think twice, especially if you have ever lived in a conservative place like Texas or Florida where a $250,000 home has an annual tax bill of about $3,500 as opposed to $10k in NY or even another place that has been ruined like Vermont.
After this goes on for a while and the economy is tanking for so long, suddenly you begin to see a bunch of NY license plates around and it’s not for vacation. These people are getting out of a place where a toll costs more than an average dinner plate. Then the same old picture arises, five years down the road after several voting cycles, boom! taxes begin to rise heavily, tolls go through the roof, state income tax is added on and basically the new government figures out how to nickle and dime each citizen until they simply leave. This process has begun in Austin, Orlando, Denver and many other cities that are excellent places where tax rates are within reason and non bloodsucking but the direction is apparent and changing.
The similar thing in Medellin except in this case it becomes a non marital type place and more of a stomping ground for clubs, hot chicks and getting laid and so on. Which by the way is not such a bad thing. I enjoyed the many nights of clubbing in Medellin, the hundreds of dates and the time spent getting know such beautiful women. Once you do this and date 8s, 9s and 10s for a while you truly get spoiled and there is no way you will ever forget these moments in a lifetime. However what happens is the good girls become outnumbered, they stay home, they study well the good and bad study, how many college chicks love to party on weekends and hang out with gringos after hours. It becomes really good for the local economy, the small cafes, the restaurants are busier, the clubs are packed, the hotels stay occupied but the quality of woman gets slammed so the guy who goes to find a wife loses, he has fun, he learned a little about the local culture which is nice, but chances are he is dating non wife material GFE’s only.
Is it still possible yes but very hard and gets worse as each passing day passes. Most guys don’t want to go through the amount of work involved. Yo meet guys that live in Medellin as of late and they all stay with the same girl but they tell you they went through a hundred women before they found this one. They tell you how tough it is out there, they tell you finding a good girl has become so difficult they even if their girlfriend is not wife material they still stay with her as they know this Medellin is not the old Medellin of 5- 10 years ago. This Medellin is becoming the Rio de Janeiro of the 2000′s.
So the thing is that all these guys out there need more options, more options that are non polluted, like the areas in the USA that still have reasonable tax rates on good sized homes. The international dating scene as gotten bigger than it ever has in the last 5 years but yet marriage agencies have all closed in the more polluted, traveled areas. Women are getting tougher to deal with locally, they just become less appealing to many or the pre reqs are just too demanding. They don’t need a man, they need someone that can cover that tax bill they voted in.
Are there alternatives? Not many but there are. Allot of guys have Colombia cemented in their minds so it’s tougher to leave it alone. Hey if you want to still give Colombia a try, by all means do, perhaps try another city like Bucaramanga or Pereira or even Bogota might be easier than Medellin right now. Join Colombian cupid here and start chatting live with hundreds of woman tonight.
Dominican Republic dating or marrying Dominican girls
On the other hand I would certainly give Santiago Dominican Republic a shot as my good friend and many other friends have successfully found good Dominican woman in this particular area. Do not get Santo Domingo mixed up with Santiago, they are 2 completely different areas and vary greatly in the looks department. Also Santo Domingo has many tourists while Santiago not as many and is loaded with beautiful woman that would probably be more than pleased to spend a lifetime with you.
Filipino Dating or marrying Filipino girls
I am not that familiar with the dating scene in the Phillipines, however I am familiar with statistics and contrary to popular belief, a much higher percentage of filipino girls stay married to Americans than I actually thought. So it might be an option to take a browse through.
Things are going extraordinarily well in the life, a hot girlfriend, going to fine dining dinners almost every night, a new AMG s550 sits in the valet area waiting for you and her to leave, business is flying with sales in 12 million range. Every single night you go home to this hot sexual babe that loves to give head and get fucked whenever you want, she also loves to tell you what she needs and wants with the expectations at high levels. She is a bitch and you know it but you figure fuck it, the ass is great and she is an awesome trophy piece.
Suddenly the the bubble bursts and your clients are calling you to sell you back whatever it was you sold them at less than half price, things are falling, sales are dropping to 20% of what they were the previous month. You never really saved much or not enough to continue paying this mortgage and AMG s550 along with maybe her SUV payment. She begins to bitch and moan because the high end dinners stop and the reality starts to set in. Your bank calls and calls the business loan and it’s all ending rapidly.
A few weeks, maybe a month goes by and you start laying the new guidelines and this becomes a traumatic experience for all involved. Stress levels begin to rise and the bitch goes away and honestly you realize she was only a hog to begin with which you knew but the pussy was nice so you didn’t care. However you didn’t expect this massive lifestyle change that has crept up on you in the last month or two. Another few months goes by, the car is gone, the house had to be downgraded, you saved what you could but now you are alone driving this beat up cash bought regular car but who gives a shit, the confidence levels are still there and you know the intelligence levels are there as well so this reality is all just temporary.
Months later you one day run into this beautiful babe and you talk to her and while you cannot woo her with the materials as you are used to, you woo her with a great personality, intelligent thoughts, perhaps a sense of humor and shortly after you realize that this girl really doesn’t care what I have in the bank or drive. You start dating and little by little you start seeing how awesome the simple things are in life, like having home cooked meals as opposed to white glove service, doing things together that require no money like watching a movie together at the house, or taking a walk around the lake, spending time with the dog, being able to bang without the thought of anything financial and so much more. More importantly what you build with her is a real love for one another, not some hooker bullshit that our country is beginning to become.
A girl like this listens to you, becomes your friend without taking advantage. She knows that you will rebuild and is willing to stand behind you even if you fail trying she will offer support. She knows that whether wealth returns or not, you will still have this deep happiness that goes far beyond 4000 square feet, loaded with the great simple things all around us.
Personally I have been in both arenas and I can tell you the latter is an amazing thing to experience, while not fun losing all the material. But actually knowing 100% she is with you for you and standing behind you all the way is night and day from having a money hungry bitch at your side. At least now when you build back up, you feel much better sharing it with someone that deserves it.
I have been watching the Voice this season as I think it’s the best in terms of singing talent shows out there. American Idol seems to have went to crap with the strong agenda forcing deal going on. Not only that but the Voice seems to really have the best talent in terms of really singing. For those who don’t know the show, basically it’s a show where there is 4 music celebrity judges that cannot see the people that try out, if they like the voice they turn the chair and the singer gets to choose who his coach will be. As simple as that, no bias involved and strictly voices hence the Voice.
Some might think I am talking about celebrity or money wise which is not the way its meant to be said. In fact just yesterday I am opening one of my email accounts and see blog article that says Matt Damion is selling his 20 million dollar home in Miami, so I read the article and check out the pics and sure enough you get to the comments and you have all these weirdos talking about did he pay his fair share? or Why do celebrities get paid so much more then us regular people and so many other idiotic comments, I can’t even begin to understand the mindset of these jealous freaks. Don’t they understand that we all have the same shot, some people work harder than others, some people choose to think while others listen to Ipods or text all day, some people go to acting school and become waiters in hopes of making it someday. I mean just seeing this type of nonsense tells you what direction this country is moving in. The jealousy is unbearable and so negative. Was it always like that? Perhaps only now at this point in my life I see shit like this.
For the first few seasons the judges were Ceelo Green, Cristina Aguilera, Blake Shelton and Adam Levine. This season Ceelo Green and Cristina Aguilera or off and to replace them is Usher and Shakira. It is the first time I have seen Shakira speak and be live on TV rather than just singing. Not only is she very beautiful with an amazing voice, I was happy to see how cool she really seems, she has this laughing type personality which goes a long way with some Colombian girls. I know all the best ones that I dated really had great senses of humor and loved to laugh. She has this rock and roll type energy which is also very unusual in comparison to many of the girls I have dated, although I tried to stay away from the major salsa lovers out there as they seem to be a different type all together, plus who want’s to end up in some salsa club every weekend to satisfy your woman’s salsa addiction. I’ll take a rock chick any day of the week over some salsa chick.a
In any event, it is a great season of the Voice and nice to see the real Shakira on the show.
Its crazy every single time I hear an American guy who is trying to effectively date Colombian women have to mention money this or money that. It is such an insecure thing to do that even the girl listening to this shit begins to realize that is the only thing this guy has to offer. While this may not be true, it certainly leaves the impression Ok I cannot get this girl normally because she is so hot, or she is so much younger or my dating strategies suck so I will steamroll my way through and try to coerce her with my money. After some time in South America men young or old will begin to see that the right girls or the simple girls that could give a shit about your income level, they already know you are there and that logically must mean that you have at least a job.
Why does this happen? It seems to me that after dating women in the States or attempting to date women in the states all they seem to care about after a certain age of around 30 is the income levels. I ask myself why and all I can think of is the fact they are failures so they are attempting to use whatever looks they have left in an effort to secure money by way of an insecure man willing to pay for a wife. Nothing wrong with having money and buying your wife things, but using that as dating advantage is just sick. Imagine pounding your wife from behind and thinking about how much the SUV or whatever other bitchy things she was she forced you to buy, not the gift you decided to give her for being the greatest wife ever. Is it her fault? Yes and no. It is her and a million other women for being programmed to seek money at every turn. It is the guys fault for accepting this sick behavior due to lack of self confidence. Maybe its the moms fault for telling her through her childhood to make sure she marries a guy with money. I do understand the thought of marrying educated or at least someone in the same planet thought wise.
This type of behavior begins to get imprinted on the minds of the people, guys with little money begin to think they don’t have a shot with the hot looking babe working down the street. They don’t even try, they just say oh no, she is 28 and i’m 40 plus or she is looking for the millionaire guys around here. From this sickness sprouts TV shows such as Millionaire Matchmaker or websites like Sugardaddy this or that.
This mentality is flourishing and these guys begin to spread this shit into Colombia and other areas essentially creating a new mentality on these girls as well. It doesn’t get asked, it just comes out in an effort to secure the girl. Oh yeah, let me tell her how big my house is, let me tell her how well I do at my bank, let me tell her what she will get if she marries me.
Who goes to Colombia rich or Poor and doesn’t have dates left and right? Who gets on Cupid and has no picture doesn’t get dates left and right?
These same guys wonder why it doesn’t work out? Well perhaps it is because you bought the relationship and really don’t know shit about each other.
Bottom line is if the confident level is there, the energy is there and surely the chemistry will follow, lets get off this wrong trip about buying wives.
Even after several years we have found no better alternative than Colombian cupid. We tried other affiliate programs on this site and despite them offering us more money than Colombian cupid some of the members complained that they offered little in comparison to Cupid or even offered false women to chat with. Although this as far as we know has never been proven we chose to remove them all.
We decided to stick with Colombian cupid almost exclusively as we get no complaints what so ever. We get customers buying memberships from as far as Spain. I have used it, my friends have used it and if nothing else it is a great tool to get started. Actually make that first contact and at least make some friends to hang out with while there.
Currently I have 2 friends that in the past 6 months have either gotten engaged or married from girls from Colombian Cupid. Was it easy? No, not at all. In fact one of them found a wife in Santiago Dominican Republic using Dominican cupid and the other one used Colombian cupid. Either way you go, you certainly have to weed through the scammers, liers and cheaters but as you get through and learn how to weed those out, you become accustomed to it and can notice a fake a mile away. it is free to post on there so always beware of guys posing as girls to get you to send cash or even worse to set up an ambush upon arrival.
Make a set of rules with first and foremost very simple. Never send money. Even after you meet her, just never send money. to me this is very simple and easy to follow. Remember she lived 20 something years before you showed up. She will live another 20 without your money. There are exceptions to this rule like after the engagement, send some to finalize papers for the things to do, bus fare and so on. Before that it doesn’t matter how dire the emergency, do not get suckered into sending money. It is very easy to do and I guess thousands of Americans get suckered each day, many of which will never even see the girl or possibly guy with a girl photo. Follow this rule and you should be good to go. Also, look for super model pictures, if they seem to good to be true they are, move on.
I recently heard that this year has been the absolute highest rate of American men seeking foreign women with Colombia being one of the top places on this list. Unfortunately thousands of these men will be taken. Do not be a statistic, learn, read and listen to other fellow Americans on how they got screwed.
Regardless to all the sales we make each week on Colombian Cupid memberships, we will always tell the truth. We wish you all good luck and thanks for clicking the affiliate link on this site for your Colombian cupid memberships.
You might think what is a culture warrior? It’s funny just the other night I was speaking with a friend of mine that has recently met a girl in a small town outside of Bogota. We were talking about a few issues that he has encountered but does have the possibility to remedy the situation and we all hope he does if it’s for the right reasons. While speaking with him I brought up the culture warriors that many of us encounter either face to face or by way of blogs or other websites. Now and again they pop up on this site, leave a comment and go away.
These culture warriors kind of remind me of the liberals out there blaming everything on race. You don’t like something political, you must be a racist and you get the picture. It’s the same thing, people that read this blog or read comments of others that actually do have experience speak the truth about experiences in another culture while dating. These culture warriors have little experience in a culture or dating within a culture besides there own, they may have recently met their true love from South America and when someone speaks the truth about his or her experience of dating a chick from that culture and the culture warriors come out to defend the entire culture they know nothing about except that this 1st, 2nd or 3rd girl they have dated from there tell them how much she loves him (culture warriors believe everything)and she tells him all about the rough past she has had and that she must of been sent from heaven for him. The love they have or better yet the infatuation they have brings out this defense mechanism that try’s to defend the whole entire culture.
Culture warriors spend hours online with webcam chicks sending them cash and fall into true love by cam site. These culture warriors really get pissed when someone says how he got stuck with a Colombian girl that robbed the shit out of him over the years. They get pissed if you say the hotel added a scam fee or you got mugged in a taxi. They will fight to end to defend that culture even if he has been dating a girl from there for just 2 weeks, it doesn’t matter. He is in a trance or in a spell.
These culture warriors are from all over the USA and Europe. I think it is a normal reaction for those that have recently embarked on a foreign wife journey with little to no experience. Face the facts, new guys get taken every single day by foreign manipulating girls until the well runs dry. Just to clarify things a little clearer for those culture warriors out there. This is not a hate or racist blog at all, but yet culture warriors think it is.
This is an educational blog for those new to dating in other cultures, it saves men thousands of dollars in scams, it educates men on common manipulation skills that happen each and every day. It saves men from getting fiance and marriage visas to pig women that have zero intentions of a lasting marriage but yet focus on work, schooling and money in these United States. I love foreign women, but the difference is, I love good foreign women with real intentions no matter what country they are from. I speak about South America because I have more experience dating wise then most Americans dating in South America and these culture warriors can use some good advice before they end up in either Jail for a fraud marriage thanks to the scam VAWA we implement to help our fellow Americans, or milked to death money wise by drips and drabs here and there or by marrying a prostitute or even GFE.
These culture warriors are a gullible group and fall hard for women when women come around. They have blinders on that block out any information that may speak of a bad experience or two, but yet listen twice to the great experiences. They are in denial and may spend several years in denial. Unfortunately no matter how much information they read, the only ones who can help these culture warriors are themselves.
Nothing wrong with being a warrior, but just be a warrior for a good woman not an entire culture you know nothing about.
One of my favorite songs by an awesome artist Joss Stone.
It has been tried and tried again by several guys that I know and also guys that I don’t know that I hear about. To take off and fly to Colombia for 1 week and spend it with that special girl you met online just will not cut it. It has proven to fail over and over because something always comes up. We try to be proper and focus our full undivided attention on that girl we think so highly of that chats with us day in and day out on the webcam or on the home phone. Problem is 9 out of 10 times she is not the one, even if you are 100% sure she is, for some crazy reason she will not be.
This is not to say that this cannot happen. It does happen on rare occasion although the guys i’m thinking of did in fact date around 5 girls in that same week. What happened was is they found their wife in the very first week of being in Colombia. This is extremely rare and although there are tons of fiance visas getting processed from those first trips, usually they are canceled within 5 months.
Either it is tremendous luck or she will make it all the way to the USA and the shit hits the fan. Even if the fiance visa is all done and you have a grand or two invested, if things go bad while waiting, always better to end it before arrival. Consider it a sign and jump on it.
The deal is, as proper and good as we want to try to be when dealing with foreign women the rules have to be broken. You don’t have to lie even, she is expecting it even if she tells you she is not. Number one rule is to make sure you have at least 5 solid phone numbers before going down for a week and use them. Even if the first date went great, go out with the others for lunches or whatever you have to do.
If this doesn’t get done, the time is wasted and years pass and the guy wonders why? What went wrong? The answer is it was a mistake to focus on 1 girl each expensive time consuming trip. You fly down, you get a hotel, you pay for dinners out, taxi rides for you and her all week. It all adds up and she really doesn’t give a shit. I don’t need to hear the bullshit from the guys that are in love with first time Colombian girls and get angry because they are 100% sure she is the best angel that ever hit the earth. These guys that don’t listen will eventually learn later. I see them on blogs sticking up for there girlfriends and there is nothing you can do to change there minds. it is something that has to be learned alone as the power of these hot women is far too strong.
Just think about it… Even if you fly down every other month here is the problem. It’s hard to find her bad points as each time you fly down it is a honeymoon and there will be no wrong. So lets say it takes 3 trips to realize you really don’t like her for a wife. That’s minimum 6 months to find out just 1 girl is bad for you.
If you date 5 girls in that same week, one may try to stop you as they pull the jealous shit but believe me, she is expecting it and will probably try harder to make the relationship work as she knows there is competition. When they know you are dating actively, she will make sure to show up on time, she will try harder to treat you better in my opinion and honestly it’s not cheating as you are not tied down to any of them yet even if they tell you you are. It will then become 5 girls per 6 months instead which gives much greater odds.
When I travel I tell them that I have plans that night and that’s it. With who? With a friend or some friends that I will call in a day or so.
Dating Colombian women searching for a wife is not an easy task and is hard work. Dating Colombian women for fun is easy.
Weird subject today but here goes. A guy I know married this foreign girl and she now works at the mall. She has several co workers mostly foreign as well and this past week she told her husband that one of her co workers is a gay guy from Venezuela and he constantly bothers her with either bullshit telling her to go to the gay club with him and that her husband is no good or he puts his cell phone in her face with naked cock pictures that he has in his phone. She apparently has told him to stop several times but he has not. He has done the same with another co worker who has since quit. Not only that but when the girl turns him down to become his friend or go to the club or look at the cock pictures, he becomes aggressive with them scaring the girl.
How do you handle this situation? I really couldn’t answer him. If he go’s to her job and confronts this guy it will probably lead to fight which ends badly as we know. Or even if it doesn’t lead to a fight it will probably end up with his wife being fired as boyfriends or husbands not allowed in the workplace.
Some of you might say well what difference does it make gay or straight why list that? It was around 7 years ago and I had been living with my Colombian girlfriend and once a year my cousin would come visit who happened to be gay. I thought whatever as long as he respected my house and my rules it would be ok which it was the few years before that he had visited aside from me thinking how dirty he was to leave such a mess in my kitchen with dirty dishes piled. This particular year, he some how lost his respect for my rules. That week I had some friends visiting from Colombia, a husband, wife and 2 young children and I gave them a large room close to the family room where the TV is and my cousin had another smaller room but usually fell asleep by the TV room. This particular night despite my rules of never bringing a boyfriend or friend over for the night I wake up and my cousin is laying on the couch with another guy and simultaneously the couple comes out with the kids for breakfast and they see these two guys sleeping together on the couch which in the privacy of your own home do what you like but I have clear rules and I got pissed, not only pissed but embarrassed. These Colombians were from one of the large manufacturing companies that I used to do business with.
The Colombian family has breakfast and takes off to Disney. I wake up my cousin and tell him to get rid of this guy now and he did and I asked him what he was thinking, that he knew a family would be over with small children and his response was so what, it’s normal. I said for you it might be normal but for me, I do not need small children seeing two men sleeping together in my house.
Later that early evening, I come out of my room and find him showing the cover of gay porn videos to my girlfriend. That was it, I lost it and told him to get the fuck out. I said not next week, not tomorrow but right now pack your shit and get out, my girlfriend was trying to calm me down and remedy the situation but it was just to much for me in my house. She made him a bowl of spaghetti before he left which i didn’t even approve of. I wanted him out that minute. It was a huge matter of disrespect for me and that’s all it took, in fact I haven’t spoken to him for years after that.
I demanded respect which was broken more than once in the same day in two very fucked up ways. So in less then a half hour he was gone and driving back to NY. The strange thing is that I feel that he either a. feels he has a point to make about how being gay is fine or b. really doesn’t realize that it is fucking disrespectful showing cock or sex pictures to guys girlfriends.
This wasn’t the first incident I had with a similar situation. In fact it was a few years after that that I had another Colombian girlfriend that I thought I cared about. She lived with a gay cousin and his sister. The gay cousin constantly went to clubs and one night that we weren’t seeing each other but the relationship was moving stronger. I called her and no answer, it was mid week and late that I decided to throw a call out. Nothing. I called again and no answer. I called again and nothing then suddenly I get a call from another number and its her drunk bad. I thought what the hell was going on. She hangs up and I check the number and it goes to some guy locally but when she called I heard lots of people. That was it, I went to bed thinking OK time for a new girlfriend, this chick is a pig and that’s it, move on. I never chase a girl and never have, I think for that reason I get sick when I see all these guys running after and throwing cash and these tontas.
Next day comes and she is calling me and I figured ok I was curious even though it is over I would love to hear this story. She proceeds to say how sorry she is, that her cousin wouldn’t take no for an answer and insisted she go with him. He used her company to get free drinks, to get the attention of straight men. This guy was a real Colombian piece of shit that I always hated for his shit actions of using women to get to men. He was dead broke so he also used women for free drinks without a care in the world of what relationship he killed in the process. I didn’t care for her excuse as I felt ultimately she agreed to go so despite pressure, she did say yes and violate the relationship and my trust factor.
So next time guys when your woman tells you oh baby don’t worry he is gay, you may want to think again even though surely there are plenty of gay men that might respect your girlfriend and her relationship.
As far as this guys wife, what do you do? Do you talk to the guy and say lay the fuck off and show some respect?
Another blow to the good men of the United States in its pro single woman direction today that it is clearly going in. A bill that many of you are familiar with in a more than intimate way while others have not experienced it and hopefully never will and just those that think they know what it is but believe all the bullshit that wraps around each bill as they sign them one by one. Better get a large jar of vaseline because a small one simply won’t do anymore.
The law that was reinstated and signed again by Obama this week is the Violence Against Women Act aka VAWA and while this law looks and sounds good to many of us when first hearing it, thinking oh good it protects women from violence. It is actually a law that ruins the lives of many good American men. For those that still don’t know what it is, in short it is basically the law that allows a foreign wife papers and a green card if she makes a statement that you abused her in any way shape or form. Physical abuse, mental abuse and any kind of abuse that will land your ass in jail for domestic violence. The problem is as if the government doesn’t know, is the fact that a much higher percentage of these foreign brides pull this shit just for quick papers, they are advised months, years, weeks or during the engagement or marriage that all the wait can be bypassed by simply staging a life ruining fraud against the American that had faith in his new wife. This normally ends up several ways.
The guy leaves for work and the wife stages a fight looking scene in the house including a few self inflicted red marks on her body. Calls the cops and they go and get you at work without even a question asked
An argument escalates to her losing control with a whacked out temper (always important to bring out tempers prior to marriage in her country) then leading to police being called and your arrest.
Her seeking the advice from a local friend typically from her culture. Sometimes staging this collectively the night before
For example in Orlando, many Moroccan men tell women to do this. These are the same scum bags that ruin the lives of American women by fraudulently marrying them. You can read an article here.
This bill was originally introduced by Joe Biden back in 1994. Since then thousands upon thousands of good men have been locked up, some with felony assault others with battery charges. There is no defense to this, once she files this abuse, she gets the papers automatic. However as stated previously in this blog, the most important thing any man can do if marry a foreign bride, is to put 24 hour surveillance in the house that records. It is a cheap investment and it is good insurance. This however will not stop her from getting papers but it very well may clear you state wise of the crime even though the arrest will forever mark you even with innocence.
Either way, it is enough to stop you from pursuing many careers especially those in investigation or law enforcement, don’t even think about a top secret clearance. (just from a previous arrest)
Yes, there will be those that say great for the welfare of women. We actually already have laws in place for that that are equal to those of men. There can be no denying that this law was made for immigration purposes only. I would welcome anyone that disagrees to send me one law that was signed in for the benefit of Americans out of the thousands of new laws that were signed in the last year or so.
In any event, once again if you plan on bringing a foreign wife. I don’t care how much you think she loves you, just remember it is not her making the decision, it will be a collectivist decision from someone in her culture. Do yourself a big favor and spend a few dollars, not much on some CCTV cameras inside the house now.
Even this girl states the true meaning of this horrible law.